Tired of sorting out issues getting access to things.

I am getting worn down from access issues. Needing access to a VM, and then it doesn't work, and then I have issues with my account being locked, then that gets sorted, I still can't access the thing, then that gets sorted the data factory I am working with needs an IP address needs to be added to a firewall. I have to email or have a call with our IT helpdesk to get these things sorted out.Then it takes them a few days to pick up my ticket.If its an emergency I can message on their slack channel for someone available to prioritise it.

Anyway I am tired of dealing with access stuff.

What I've built has to go to production but some people can't decide how it should access the database. Its a SQL 2014 so there is no passwordless authentication. Person A wants to let me use a password, but person be doesn't and would rather the whole migration and modernisation happens first. Now they are in deadlock with each other and time is ticking for me to get this thing in production

This never used to bother me as much. I know its just part of life as a software dev. But its really got to me. I am now only working a few hours a day because I can't stand this. And then crunch time comes and I get whats left done in 2 days with a bunch of overtime and then on the weekend. I just can't seem to force myself to work any more like a normal person.

But after 8 years of being a dev , on various projects, and companies, I just feel so worn down with this.