How do I manage the autorisation between Hardware-Software and limit comunication to a specific software?

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Hi, I'm a 2nd year college student in electronic and I've started working on the development of my 3rd year project. It is a big project, which is why I start working on it now. So I'm currently looking left and right on the internet for information for each aspect (Hardware and Software) of my project. My project has NFC communication between a custom Read and Write NFC device (the sub) and a program on my computer (the host) as one of its core elements.

For the software side, how can I make sure only the specific software I'm developping for my project has the autorisation to communicate with the Hardware. I don't want any other NFC/RFID software/app to be able to receive/read the information from the Device and Chips.